"He feels hot."
"He’s fine."
"No, he feels hot."
"I just turned up the air conditioning, and he was lying on me, so it’s my body heat."
"No, it’s not that kind of hot."
"Stephanie, please. He’s fine."
I wasn’t…
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“be their mother!” + other fouls
heavy weights
June 14, 2007
So it’s no secret that I’m obsessed with Bravo’s Top Chef. I’ve been known to watch the rerun marathons, just because, well, because I can. No matter that I watch each episode at least twice, I’ll still manage to leave…
three sides
May 16, 2007
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There are of course always three sides to every story. I vent here, painting one, very specific story: mine. Stories of my life, not our life. This isn’t a journalistic approach to truth; it’s a way for me to express…
speaking of impressive
May 9, 2007
I’m having people over for dinner next week. I can, like few others, make a three-day weekend of planning a menu. "Please don’t let it rule your life," Phil warns, "or I don’t want to have people over."
"Well, then…
that’s how strong my love is
February 19, 2007
I wasn’t listening to him. There I was, sitting on our porch, sunset, a South African shiraz, on our swinging porch seat, just back from a family walk. Lucas in his car seat to my right, Abigail to my left. …
overlapping
January 31, 2007
I’ve never been good at cuddling. Linus doesn’t count because he just wiggles in there and takes over, whether I like it or not. I like having my own space in the bed and need to get "situated" before anyone…
pump and dump
January 1, 2007
This time last year I was not a wife. I was not pregnant. I was not a published author. I was living in New York. A year later and I’m living in Texas, married, published, with a son and a…
baby babble
December 27, 2006
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I’m exhausted and unsure if it’s this new medicine, taken three times a day, or if it’s my pumping every two hours (except for at night, when I sleep uninterrupted only for four hours). When I first announced my pregnancy…









August 27, 2007
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