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worst case scenario

July 31, 2008

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worst case scenario

Anyone who exhales a second of "See, what you’re dealing with now is KARMA! Ha, you really are a Greek Tragedy!" needs a big ol’ hug. Not from me, but surely, they need more love in their life. The people…

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atrial fibrillation: with updates

July 30, 2008

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atrial fibrillation: with updates

It’s hardly Oz. While we cannot see behind the curtain, we can hear quite well. You look up from the paperwork when we hear, "My, what a beautiful airway you have." So much better for keeping your teeth during anesthesia.…

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shocking your heart

July 30, 2008

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shocking your heart

I remember when I was lying on this same sofa back when we had a coffee table and a dog. You were kneeling on the rug that’s now in our dining room. With tears in your eyes, you took my…

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is “special needs” a retarded term?

July 22, 2008

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is “special needs” a retarded term?

The panelists introduced themselves, each sharing a small story that identified them as mothers of NICU twins, of a child with down syndrome, of a son with autism. Hearing one mother of an autistic child share a story of how…

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if only

June 25, 2008

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Phil recently phoned a woman who’d cleaned our house in Newport, RI, to see if she was available to tidy up after the tenants vacated (and before the new renters arrived). "It’s that time of year again," he said after…

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when dealing with health insurance reps is bad for your health

June 10, 2008

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Phil handles our health insurance, a nettlesome task for those with the patience of a pee-wee coach. I’m learning that health insurance is a maze with a mantra that begins, "How can we try to not provide you with our…

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preemie babies: they are… and they aren’t.

May 9, 2008

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I felt myself holding back tears at dinner. We went out tonight with a couple whose child is in the NICU. I wanted to show them how much we understood without making it about us and what we’d been through.…

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ass-pies and cock-sacs

March 9, 2008

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I stumbled upon a parenting forum where a mother referred to her child as an "Aspie Kid." How darling, I thought. I love nicknames. I bet it’s for little ones suffering with asthma. It makes no sense of course, but…

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