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surgery scheduled

June 3, 2009

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surgery scheduled

Phil’s mother is flying in tomorrow morning. She’ll be picked up at the airport, then dropped off at the hospital. To wait with me. "No one should have to wait alone in a waiting room," she said. Dr. Natale said…

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should you be alarmed when your nurse starts to cry on your behalf?

May 20, 2009

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should you be alarmed when your nurse starts to cry on your behalf?

Phil had an appointment with his cardiologist yesterday. It was a scheduled "stress echo," where they were planning on taking photos of his heart at rest, and then every three minutes, as they upped the speed on a treadmill. That…

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recovering

March 30, 2009

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recovering

 
In two weeks Phil will be "cardioverted." It sounds like an optional amenity, something you pay a little extra for, like a sunroof or heated seats. But it’s not a turbo button beside the gears. It’s electric shock via…

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a husband’s heart

March 24, 2009

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a husband’s heart

 
Heart History: Phil’s father died at age 32 of a weak heart, an unknown cardiomyopothy, where it was explained that the pump of his heart wasn’t strong enough. Phil, 41, had a very low resting heart rate of 30…

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dropping an eaves in the waiting room of saint david’s hospital

March 23, 2009

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dropping an eaves in the waiting room of saint david’s hospital

 
"The good thing is, at least he had a stroke and stopped talking. I mean, that man was a big talker, and I’m sayin’ he got out and used all his words up by the time that stroke came.…

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saint david’s hospital

March 23, 2009

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saint david’s hospital

 
This is where you were born. On Pearl Harbor Day: a sneak attack. You busted out ten weeks before you were due, with Papa in New York, and Mama on the sofa. We had been to Saint David’s before…

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sex with the life vest: a thank you

March 2, 2009

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sex with the life vest: a thank you

 
I generally kinda hate gratitude posts. They bore me. Not so much writing them out of the blue, just reading them on other blogs, or writing them thinking people are just waiting for one. As if I began a…

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heartsick and the case of the man bra

February 26, 2009

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heartsick and the case of the man bra

This is not a photo of Phil but of the new man bra life vest he’ll be wearing. And to be clear, his eating habits and lifestyle have nothing to do with his heart condition. He doesn’t have clogged arteries.…

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