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personal accomplishments and accomplices

September 25, 2009

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personal accomplishments and accomplices

"What if I just want to be a mom? Not just as if that’s all and it’s easy but just as in ‘Can’t you just love me and be proud of me if I’m a mom, only?’"
“Don’t lie to…

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he said, she said: assessments & asses

September 13, 2009

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he said, she said: assessments & asses

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he said, she said: the lion, the bitch, and her wardrobe

August 27, 2009

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he said, she said: the lion, the bitch, and her wardrobe

It was date night, so I put in a little effort. Effort meaning a shower. Little meaning shaving the wee bits. I dabbed on lotion and rifled through the closet for a date-worthy outfit. You know, the ensembles featured in…

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living… room

June 18, 2009

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living… room

When our monsters are fast asleep, our conversation makes me wish I was too
"So come on, tell me."
"What?"
"Have you noticed any of these good changes the doctor mentioned might be springing up in Phil?"
"Fuck, no."
Okay,…

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his and hers

May 27, 2009

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his and hers

I get it. Giving feels good. Doing for others is what really makes us happy. Not things. Actions. Selflessness. I so get it. I do. But what happens months later, when you gave and gave, and now you’re stuck in…

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he said, she said: labor laws and pains

May 18, 2009

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he said, she said: labor laws and pains

Either you come up with a division of labor or you risk the division of assets. Sometimes you simply need to hash it out, to decide who does what, and treat it like a budget. Who’s the hunter today, the…

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breaking up with your therapist

April 23, 2009

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breaking up with your therapist

Thank you for taking the time to meet with Stephanie and me yesterday.  You seem like a very nice person and your studies are consistent with Stephanie’s desired counseling techniques as well.  Upon leaving we did have some questions.
The…

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he said, she said: couples therapy starts now

April 22, 2009

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