"What if I just want to be a mom? Not just as if that’s all and it’s easy but just as in ‘Can’t you just love me and be proud of me if I’m a mom, only?’"
“Don’t lie to…
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he said, she said: the lion, the bitch, and her wardrobe
August 27, 2009
It was date night, so I put in a little effort. Effort meaning a shower. Little meaning shaving the wee bits. I dabbed on lotion and rifled through the closet for a date-worthy outfit. You know, the ensembles featured in…
living… room
June 18, 2009
When our monsters are fast asleep, our conversation makes me wish I was too
"So come on, tell me."
"What?"
"Have you noticed any of these good changes the doctor mentioned might be springing up in Phil?"
"Fuck, no."
Okay,…
his and hers
May 27, 2009
I get it. Giving feels good. Doing for others is what really makes us happy. Not things. Actions. Selflessness. I so get it. I do. But what happens months later, when you gave and gave, and now you’re stuck in…
he said, she said: labor laws and pains
May 18, 2009
Either you come up with a division of labor or you risk the division of assets. Sometimes you simply need to hash it out, to decide who does what, and treat it like a budget. Who’s the hunter today, the…
breaking up with your therapist
April 23, 2009
Thank you for taking the time to meet with Stephanie and me yesterday. You seem like a very nice person and your studies are consistent with Stephanie’s desired counseling techniques as well. Upon leaving we did have some questions.
The…










September 25, 2009
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