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how to deal with his trash stash

31. August 2010

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how to deal with his trash stash

Is porn cheating? (In a way, yeah) Is it disrespectful to your partner? (Kinda think so) Is it perfectly normal, a healthy way of having needs met? (Yup, that's true, too) Guess what? It's not…

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found his trash stash, now what?

26. August 2010

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QUESTION FROM A GREEK TRAGEDY READER: My story is not long and complicated. I've been in a relationship for almost two years now. We moved in together about 3 months ago. He's takes care of me, makes me feel loved.…

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advice: dirty talk, another guy, + video games – help!

16. August 2010

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advice: dirty talk, another guy, + video games – help!

QUESTION FROM A GREEK TRAGEDY READER: I had written to you in May about how I read SU&D in college, and then once again while I was on vacation a few years later (I'm now in my mid twenties) and…

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which is more disposable: income or people?

13. August 2010

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which is more disposable: income or people?

I am re-posting this because for whatever reason, this week has been the week of heartsick "what should I do?"s involving romantic relationships. Admittedly, I get all sorts of mail from all sorts of people.  Friend mail. Blog…

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advice: the dreaded “why aren’t you two engaged?”

28. June 2010

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advice: the dreaded “why aren’t you two engaged?”

QUESTION FROM A GREEK TRAGEDY READER [Let's call her Amy]: I’ve been dating my current boyfriend since November 2008. I’m 30 and he’s 38. In August of 2009, after roughly 9 months of dating, he told me that instead of…

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meat candy + the sex that wasn’t

15. June 2010

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meat candy + the sex that wasn’t

I totally wasn't planning on writing about flanken, in June nonetheless, but there it is. It keeps sneaking into everything I write. The only way out is through, so here we are. I feel compelled to share that I…

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the bowdabra b(l)ow job

11. May 2010

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the bowdabra b(l)ow job

This post is about packages. The kind you give and the kind you receive. The one for which you sometimes buy silk boxers, mostly out of guilt after purchasing one thing too many on an "I'm just browsing" day. So,…

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assuming he’ll pay: guilty freeloader syndrome

4. May 2010

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assuming he’ll pay: guilty freeloader syndrome

QUESTION FROM A GREEK TRAGEDY READER: I've enjoyed your blog for years, and I'd love your opinion on an issue I'm having with a guy I'm dating. We are both in our mid 20's in professional school. Even though I…

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advice: I’ve caught him in a lie, now what?

20. April 2010

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advice: I’ve caught him in a lie, now what?

QUESTION FROM A GREEK TRAGEDY READER: Ok, so I have a boyfriend, and we've been together for about 8 months now. We worked together before we started dating for about 6 months. We started dating August 1st and moved in…

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long-distance love: what would you do?

23. March 2010

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long-distance love: what would you do?

QUESTION FROM A GREEK TRAGEDY READER: I am writing to ask for some of your wit and wisdom. I started dating a great guy about three months ago. Right from the start, things clicked. On our first date, a dog…

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