I‘m feeling concerned for a friend and confused about what, if anything, should be said. My former college roommate was a very bubbly person. Obviously, after school, we didn’t talk as much…but we kept in touch. Each time I see…
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is there a corpse in jennifer aniston’s cargo?
April 16, 2009
Henrik Ibsen, a 19th century Norwegian dramatist, has likened not "getting over it" to carrying a corpse in the cargo of a boat. That is to say, we can try to sail forward, brave new waters, but if you’re carrying…
love: it’s a sadass coldplay song. sorry, but it is.
April 11, 2009
I was dating Oliver, who believed Coldplay’s "The Scientist" was actually about a scientist.
"Have you not listened to the lyrics?" I asked as I swigged down the last of our wine.
"Yes, baby, and it’s very sad. No…
confronting the other woman: the right and wrong advice
April 3, 2009
I’ve mentioned before that advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer. Intellectually we all know right from wrong, but sometimes making that right turn feels antiquated. "Yes, I know I shouldn’t care, that I should…
small world
March 20, 2009
Sometimes the world gets small on me. So small it stops fitting. You run into a life you had once upon a time ago, and you wonder where you would be now had you stepped to the right instead…
there’s a limo waiting for you outside
March 2, 2009
Grass greener. It’s what I got out of watching tonight’s "After The Final Rose Ceremony." Six weeks ago, bachelor Jason Mesnick got down on bended knee and proposed to Melissa Rycroft, after sending Molly Malaney home in tears (which she…
missing the life you have right now
January 27, 2009
I’m consumed right now with writing this pilot, so there’s little room for much else. I’m entrenched in the world of dating, even if I never leave my zip code, house, sofa, clothes, underwear. I’m in my head, thinking, reliving,…
following up
December 17, 2008
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When we’re in it, when it’s wrong, but it’s all we know or want to know, we sit around thinking we’ve put in the time, we’ve waited, we’ve made him better, so we’re afraid to let him go, afraid…









September 9, 2009
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