Oh, how they try! To sneak up on Phil, to trick him, what delight! And what a wonderful memory, to see two moving lumps beneath my duvet, lumps trying desperately not to be lumps, breathing lumps that can’t help but…
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making the most of your life – funeral edition
April 16, 2013
These things happen in threes. It’s what they say. “They” being people like my father, a man who actually owns a book of funeral home and cemetery locations. Who owns something like that? He also reads the obituaries daily. This…
candy judge mathematics
April 9, 2013
I try to let the kids do their own homework without hovering. They want me to hover, and it would certainly go faster if I corrected them as they went. But, I value the skill of auto-correcting, realizing something isn’t…
role mother takes down roll model
January 18, 2013
I made this salad nine years ago. I remember because I was snowed in, with a boy sleeping over. Dulce was sleeping at another boy’s apartment in my same building. It felt like a tidy sitcom life, where your best…
the triple jump: holiday hopscotch
November 28, 2012
Our Thanksgiving table, half set, lined with dried Magnolia leaves & real blue pumpkins
It’s damn near impossible to pull off. The triple jump through Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Years—add Hanukkah and a single birthday party for boy/girl twins, and…
helicopter parenting + the case for being a bitch
October 15, 2012
Helicopter parenting: when parents hover and drop the ladder to rescue their children from challenging situations that may lead to some type of failure.
It’s been looming overhead for me lately. Specifically, with regard to “social failure” I’ve been questioning…
school lunch ideas for kids
August 28, 2012
From cartoon character sandwiches to bento boxed lunches, putting food on the table is suddenly an undertaking. How do working parents work it?
Eggs are a foul foul way to go through lunch. Don’t get me wrong, we all love…
sweet betrayal
August 24, 2012
She came home from camp with her face in her hands. No sound coming out. I knelt down to ask, touching her arm, letting her know I was there when she was ready.
Every day when Abigail returns home from…










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