What would I say, if I could, to my younger self? You know, if we went for drinks at a Mexican joint, and I began a sentence with, "Okay, there’s something you should know…" what would follow? It’s easy to…
Continue reading...12. August 2009
(Finding the Extraordinary on an ordinary rainy day) I sometimes think there are hidden secrets in our lives. Not things that we don’t want to tell people, or things about which we’re embarrassed, but the kind of secrets the…
Continue reading...25. February 2009
"I'm afraid that if I start dreaming, I'll lose my way." I wrote it in my journal just the other day and immediately saw the irony. When we stop following our dreams, isn't that when we've lost our way…
Continue reading...3. September 2008
Whether we insist on sleeping without socks, or if we're the type who unconsciously squints when we really like something, we want so much to be adored for our sidelines. For the little things most people miss, the smaller…
Continue reading...13. May 2008
Upon viewing some of my past skinny pictures, someone recently commented, "Seeing how amazing you look at 118 pounds, what keeps you from going on an extreme diet to recapture that?" I have an answer. Ignoring the…
Continue reading...13. November 2007
I didn't so much mind the velvet ropes, just the bouncers and the authority games. Being on the list. Even being at a place with a list. It was annoying and not at all who I was. And even…
Continue reading...25. October 2007
Imagine, as you must, that I get a pile of shit everyday from drive-by readers who want to bitch me out because they honestly believe I write this blog to entertain them. Now double it. I of course get your…
Continue reading...2. March 2007
I have friends, quite a few, who are, as of late, going through breakups. Not the kind you shrug at and say, “this too shall pass.” Decades. Half decades. I have a friend, of course I do, who dated a…
Continue reading...17. December 2006
I wasn’t afraid of feeling pain. I was afraid they were going to be pulled from my body, lifeless. I wouldn’t hear them cry. We’d all wait, in an inhale. A technician would check a clock. They’d blink at a…
Continue reading...22. May 2006
I just get so crazy when he isn’t giving me what he used to. His emails used to be about how he thought of me constantly and looked forward to being with me at the end of his day… how…
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1. November 2009
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