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learning how to bake: favorite books

August 26, 2009

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learning how to bake: favorite books

WHY THE HELL DO I SUCK SO BAD AT BAKING?
Or, more to the point, How do I get myself some help, ’cause we won’t be covering this in couples therapy this week. Answers, Straight Up is a section of…

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what the hell do I do with a four year old in NYC?

August 14, 2009

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what the hell do I do with a four year old in NYC?

Since you’re so great at planning days out in NYC, what do you recommend for a day out in NYC with a 4 year old?
 
Puppies ARE cuter than any baby in the world.
Face it, all babies look…

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confronting the other woman: the right and wrong advice

April 3, 2009

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confronting the other woman: the right and wrong advice

I’ve mentioned before that advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer. Intellectually we all know right from wrong, but sometimes making that right turn feels antiquated. "Yes, I know I shouldn’t care, that I should…

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silk purses and sow ears

July 9, 2008

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silk purses and sow ears

An article I’d written for now-defunct Jane Magazine on Couples Therapy
“Couples therapy before you’re married?”
“Hell, no. You don’t make a silk purse out of a sow’s ear.”
“…”
“If it’s not easy at twenty-six, it won’t be easier…

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question: very quick answer

May 27, 2008

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I have a question.  With your frank discussion and "nothing to hide" attitude towards the unhappy times of your past, I wonder:
If your current marriage were to also become unhappy, would you be honest about it in "real-time"? The…

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are you quick to rebound?

April 24, 2008

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are you quick to rebound?

I get quite a bit of mail asking for advice. Sometimes it’s restaurant reco’s, other times it’s itinerary questions about New York. Hair products or my favorite brand of bedding. How to lose weight. Mostly, it’s about the heart. I…

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